Clear, knowing, affirmative, conscious and voluntary permission, through word or action,
to engage in mutually agreed upon sexual activity or contact.
Since different people may experience the same interactions differently, each party
is responsible for making sure that partners have provided ongoing, clear consent
to engaging in any sexual activity or contact.
A person may withdraw consent at any time during sexual activity or contact through
words or actions. If that happens, the other party must immediately cease the activity
or contact. Pressuring another person into sexual activity can constitute coercion,
which is also considered to be sexual misconduct.
Silence or the absence of resistance alone does not constitute consent. A victim is
not required to resist or say "no" for an offense to be proven.
Consent to some forms of sexual activity (e.g., kissing, fondling, etc.) should not
be construed as consent for other kinds of sexual activities (e.g., intercourse).
Being or having been in a dating relationship with the other party does not mean that
consent for sexual activity exists. Previous consent to sexual activity does not imply
consent to sexual activity in the future. To legally give consent in California, individuals
must be at least 18 years old.
Force:
Force is defined as direct or indirect use of physical violence and/or imposing physically
on someone to gain sexual access. Force, unless part of mutually-permissible kink,
is a clear demonstration of a lack of consent.
Incapacitation:
Incapacitation is defined as a state in which individuals are unable to make rational,
reasonable decisions because they lack the capacity to understand the "who, what,
when, where, why, or how" of a situation or interaction. Individuals cannot give sexual
consent if they can't understand what is happening, or if they are disoriented, helpless,
asleep, or unconscious for any reason. That applies even if it is because they voluntarily
consumed alcohol or drugs. Unless consent is "knowing," it is not valid. Those engaging
in sexual activity who know or should have known that the other party is incapacitated
are engaging in sexual misconduct. The possession, use, distribution, and/ or administration
of any incapacitating substances is prohibited.
The fact that a responding party was intoxicated, and thus did not realize the reporting
party was incapacitated, does not excuse sexual misconduct.